tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6274008188298840932.post3086810973158966855..comments2023-12-18T05:02:13.230-08:00Comments on View From the Shoe: How to be DivorcedHeatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10517747321455561159noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6274008188298840932.post-17783096271392274982010-04-23T11:08:46.028-07:002010-04-23T11:08:46.028-07:00Hello! Thanks for stopping by my blog. I am now ...Hello! Thanks for stopping by my blog. I am now a new follower. I'm thinking that I need to print out these rules and mail them to my ex, especially the part about not having the kids be your messenger. There's nothing I hate worse than the kids being put in the middle of divorce drama.Terra Heckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01528404663373917950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6274008188298840932.post-68925561349313280412010-04-21T18:52:05.527-07:002010-04-21T18:52:05.527-07:00First, I certainly do not need divorce advice from...First, I certainly do not need divorce advice from you. I think I have got that down, since I have 100% more divorce experience than you do. :) Second, you know that I have bookmarked and saved in every possible way this post, since it says, in your own words, that you are not perfect. I will use this on you at a later date, you can be sure. (Hey, its your own fault, you keep bugging me to read your blog.)D. Heather's brothernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6274008188298840932.post-57438109021864394412010-04-21T06:04:40.242-07:002010-04-21T06:04:40.242-07:00I am divorced, too. I believe in the rule of alwa...I am divorced, too. I believe in the rule of always put the kids first. This should be true at all times. I get along well with their father and it makes them much more well adjusted. I never talk down about their father in front of them. No matter what- he is their dad and they love him. I don't ever want them to feel bad for that! I also think it is true that they will find out the shortcomings of their dad and myself on their own. They are smart kids-they will figure it out. :) Great advice!<br />AmandaAmandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11408703756025948915noreply@blogger.com